This story is not at all funny, in fact, it makes you think, think about the kind of pressures the kids of this generation undergo. The pressures that did not exist in our carefree childhood days. Sometimes, I feel that at forty, I have already grown too much for my age.
I work as an honorary member in our housing society management team for the last eleven years. The society, as a part of security initiative, on the directions of local police installed Close Circuit Camera (CCTV), to double ensure watertight security around 12 cameras are installed, that tracks a person’s entry from the main gate till the moment he reaches the particular apartment.
Being IT savvy, I have been entrusted the responsibility of looking after the entire setup of this CCTV network. It was not such a boring job after all to watch some hilarious clips. Members of the society for all and sundry reasons started seeking footage to search for any and every item that was lost, even inside their houses. Obviously, we did never entertain such stupid requests.
That day, last month, as I reached my workplace, I received a phone call, firstly from my wife and then from the society secretary and reported a theft, reportedly by a kid from our own society. They required security footage, I told them we would meet in the evening to check the footage.
That evening at seven as we assembled before the security monitors to check the footage, the doubting Thomases were proved correct. The boy whom everybody doubted was the culprit. He was seen donning a raincoat upping his hood and entering into that particular wing of the society. After exactly ten minutes, the boy could be seen running away. All he could grab was a 100 rupee note.
The family in whose house this theft took place witnessed it. The boy and his family were also called. The boy was a small 14-year-old teen. He was unapologetic in the beginning and was showing all traits of a trained criminal. He did not accede to the fact that he did the theft, as nowhere in the clip, it was conclusively seen that the boy entered the house. The more the committee members and the parents of the boy pressurized the kid, the more did he turn stubborn. I then held the hand of the kid and pampered and cajoled him a bit. Sadly I could relate with the boy, as back home, my son is just a year elder to this boy. I told him to accept whether he had done any mistake and we would request the family to settle the matter then and there itself. Getting a bit firm, I told him that if he did not tell the truth and entire truth, the matter will go in the hands of the police and then no one can help him. This carrot and stick policy worked and he slowly started accepting and said I entered the room and took just 100 Rs. note. The parents of the boy were feeling ashamed of their kids’ activities and the mother sobbed pitifully.
I felt very sad and down as I came back home. It was not a matter of reported theft of Rs.100/-. It was the need that was created amongst kids. When we were kids, a 10 rupee note was like a jackpot for us, we kids never saw a Rs.100/- note with us as pocket money.
Nowadays, in schools and in colleges, a trend has set amongst kids to throw parties on any and every stupid cause. The kids from affluent homes with liberal parents are the one who lavishly spends money on such parties. The kids with not so affluent conditions or with strict parents find it difficult to return favors of friends. Someday their turn comes to throw a party and the kids have no money to spend, to save embarrassment, they either borrow money from parents giving false excuses or not all, but some, like the kid in this story end up stealing firstly from their own house and then from any and every source.
Somehow, I feel that the parents of this generation are the real ones to blame. Most of the parents today, born in late 70’s or early 80’s were from middle class or lower middle-class upbringings, during the pre-liberalized era when there were no luxuries around. In a sentimental bid to let our kids enjoy the luxuries, which we could not during our childhood days, we pamper our kids beyond a certain extent, resulting in scenes like I mentioned in this story. We have cushioned our kids, we have soft gloved them, prevented them from all kind of insecurities. Somehow, we have made our kids handicapped because of this. Today’s kids do not know how to face precarious situations, because they have never faced them. No, I don’t mean that we must expose our kids but must sensitize them for sure.
As for the boy is concerned, he roams around even today as nothing has happened. Totally unapologetic.